Energy Blog by Kelly Flack
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We all have moments when emotions can rise quickly—anger, frustration, panic, or overwhelm. In these moments, it can feel like your mind is racing and your body is running on overdrive. This is where box breathing becomes a powerful and immediate tool.
Box breathing is a simple and effective breathing technique that helps to calm the mind and body. It’s often used by athletes, first responders, and even in the military to help stay calm under pressure.
The pattern is easy to follow:
Inhale for 5 seconds → Hold for 5 seconds → Exhale for 5 seconds → Hold for 5 seconds
Repeat this for a few rounds.
You can visualize it like drawing a square—each side representing a part of the breath. This rhythm brings structure and presence back into your body.
When you hold your breath for 5 seconds, your brain starts to take notice. It doesn’t freak out in a dangerous way, but it does shift its focus. You see, your brain’s #1 job is survival. So when you stop breathing—even briefly—it starts focusing on getting oxygen rather than fueling the angry or anxious thoughts that may have been spinning through your head.
This shift in attention helps you break the cycle of looping emotions like anger, stress, or overwhelm. You're giving your mind something neutral, rhythmic, and safe to focus on.
You can use box breathing anywhere—before a difficult conversation, during stress, or even when you're lying in bed with a racing mind. The breath becomes an anchor, a reset, and a reminder that you are in control of how you respond.
Personally, I’ve used this technique to move through some really high-emotion moments. It takes less than a minute to feel a shift, especially when combined with intention and self-awareness.
Let’s do a round together.
Inhale... 1... 2... 3... 4... 5
Hold... 1... 2... 3... 4... 5
Exhale... 1... 2... 3... 4... 5
Hold... 1... 2... 3... 4... 5
Repeat a few more times and feel your body begin to settle. This is how energy begins to shift.
Your breath is your power. It's free. It's always with you. And when used with intention, it can be the exact tool you need to reclaim calm in a chaotic moment.
✨ Try this for a few days and see how you feel.
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